Last updated Jul 29, 2018
There are ten critical signs that you are dealing with a black hearted person that you need to keep a constant lookout for…
Some people have a cold, black, dead heart. You can’t reason with these people and their only goal in life is to see you fail. These people lack any empathy for others and they won’t ever be able to. They’re apathetic and will do anything in their power to sabotage your personal success. Black hearted people need to be avoided at every cost. So, in order to better avoid the black hearted people of the world, keep a close watch to make sure people don’t display these ten terrible signs that a person is black hearted.
#1 They’re reckless.
They’re unreliable, irresponsible, and careless. They don’t care about anything that happens and they don’t consider any of the consequences because they simply don’t care about them. This is the type of person that will act out or do something dangerous for seemingly no reason. They’re completely thoughtless.
#2 They keep a lot of secrets.
Black hearted people will never tell you everything there is to know about them. Black hearted people are secretive and they will try to keep as much information from you as possible. Black hearted people have no desire to try to bond with you so they will never share personal information with you. If you think they’re going to share their true intentions are feelings you are wrong.
#3 They’re never sorry for what they’ve done.
Black hearted people don’t have any empathy – they don’t care about the damage they might cause to you. Along with being careless and reckless, when a black hearted person is confronted about the negative consequences of their actions they don’t seem to care. A person with a black heart is incapable of feeling sorry about what they’ve done – they might apologize out of necessity but they never mean it.
#4 They are always wasting your time.
It’s not surprising that, in a reality created by a black-hearted person, the world revolves around them. Any kind of relationship requires a lot of care and attention, but this is a relationship in which you don’t want any involvement. An evil person will demand unrealistic amounts of attention to the point where you can’t even live your own life. Time is precious and anyone who refuses to acknowledge let alone respect yours, isn’t worthwhile.
#5 They try gaslighting you.
You know exactly what is going on what they did but they are creating their own reality. They try to make you feel crazy or paranoid when you catch them lying or being deceptive. They will do anything they can to make you believe their version of reality so they can continue to manipulate you.
#6 They’ll do anything to manipulate you.
The evillest people have – unfortunately – turned manipulation into an artform. Just look at the first example: any victim of manipulation has, at least to some extent, bought into the evil person’s “reality.” If you ever get stuck having to deal with this, the best thing you can do for your own sake (and theirs) is to distance yourself as much as possible. The more time you spend with people like that, the more likely you are to fall victim to their manipulative reality and lies.
#7 They feel entitled.
Black hearted people truly feel that the world owes them something. They think that they are so special that they shouldn’t have to live a normal existence. They believe that they deserve more than other people because there is something special about them that sets them apart from other people. Black hearted people think they’re smarter than everyone else because they’ve found a way to ignore their emotions and take advantage of people around them.
#8 They always have to be the center of attention.
Black hearted people can’t stand it when someone else is getting the attention they think they deserve. Black hearted people believe that they’re more important than everyone else so they think they should get all of the attention. They will go out of their way to create drama in order to get attention. A black hearted person will go out of their way to seek attention.
#9 They believe their own lies.
The difference between a normal person who lies and a black hearted person is that the person with a black heart will actually believe their own lies. When someone has a black heart they will be so adamant about their lies that they even convince themselves. They believe their own deception in order to better trick you. This is their most powerful weapon they use against you when they’re gaslighting, lying, and trying to manipulate you.
#10 You can’t trust them for anything.
This goes without saying… People whose worlds revolve around themselves are self-centered and will do whatever is in their power to get what they want. Whether it takes lying or twisting the truth, this kind of person cannot be trusted – nor are they worthy of it. But, because they are such masterful manipulators, it can be incredible difficult to discern when an evil person is being genuine. (Hint: it’s probably never.)
Be Aware and Stay Safe
Now that you know the most common and tough-to-spot signs of a black-hearted and evil person, you should tread carefully around anyone who might have popped into your head while reading this article. If evil people see an opportunity to befriend you, they will try and take advantage of your kindness.
Source: healthy-holistic-living.com, davidwolfe.com
The Easiest 5 Ways To Spot A Fake Nice Person In Your Life
Friendships are probably the most important relationships in our lives, especially if we have good solid friends. But sometimes it’s hard to tell the difference between a nice and a fake person.
Use this guide to sift through who are the truly nice people and remove yourself from the fake ones.
1. Genuinely nice people will support all your actions.
A nice person will support and encourage in any capacity. It can be a hobby or a career change, but an authentic, real friend cares and will be on the journey with you.
2. Love your quirky personality.
We all have elements of our personality that are a little quirky, a real friend will stand by you despite your quirks,
3. Eternal forgiveness.
As well all make mistakes, a nice person will always forgive, and they will do this because they value the friendship more than the mistake you made.
4. Always in touch.
Your real friends will always stay in touch with you because they are interested in you and your life. You might notice that fake people will only contact you.
5. They make time for you.
Your real friends will always make time for you, if it’s a Saturday morning coffee or a phone call after work, they want to spend time with you and they will.
It’s also important to be able to recognize the signs of a fake friend, and not just what a real friend is.
Below are some things to look out for if you suspect a fake friend.
1. Fake people are passive aggressive.
Fake friends are really good at speaking in a passive-aggressive way. They always find a way to insult you with a compliment. This will slowly reduce your self-confidence and often you won’t realize it’s even happening.
2. Fake people constantly let you down.
Fake friends will often initiate plans and never follow through. They agree to plan an event with you but leave it up to you to do everything. They will often have the perfect excuse as to why they couldn’t make it so that they don’t want to feel guilty about it.
3. Fake people expect you to drop everything.
A fake friend will expect you to always put them first. They think that your life revolves around them and their situation will always be worse. Again this is all about competition.
4. Fake people gossip a lot.
This should be a huge red flag for you if your “friend” gossips about others. If they are saying things about others, what do you think they are saying about you? We all need to vent but when they are ripping apart it goes to show they aren’t truly nice people.
5. Fake people will always make themselves seem more important.
Even if you got a new job or a promotion at work, your fake friend will always out-do you. They will always outdo you and your news won’t be good news, their news will always be better. To them, it’s a competition.
One less fake person is better than a bunch of unreliable people in your life. Remember these points the next time a friend lets you down, they could just be having a bad time or they are a fake and it is better to cut them out of your life.